Red Lantern was more than a restaurant. For 25 years it became a sacred place in people’s lives – a business that customers and staff genuinely grieved when it closed. In this powerful keynote, co founder Pauline Nguyen reveals how emotional mastery was the hidden engine behind its culture, its customer devotion – and its commercial success.
Audiences learn why human first leadership and emotional regulation are now hard business skills, not “soft” ones. Pauline shows leaders how mastering their own state directly impacts revenue: calmer, clearer leaders make better decisions, create more resilient teams and design experiences that turn customers into devoted advocates.
She unpacks how to build capacity instead of curating comfort; how to practise radical transparency without losing kindness; and how to grow leaders at every level so teams become fiercely committed – even under pressure.
Blending vivid stories from the world’s most awarded Vietnamese restaurant with insights from neuroscience and behavioural psychology, Pauline offers a practical, transformative playbook for leaders who want deep performance, not just high performance – and a legacy that lasts long after the doors close.
Key Take Aways:
Audiences will learn how to:
● Use Emotional Mastery as a commercial advantage that drives loyalty, performance and profit.
● Shift from customer service and loyalty to true Customer Devotion.
● Build Capacity in themselves and their teams instead of chasing comfort and avoidance.
● Practise Radical Transparency that strengthens, not fractures, trust and culture.
● Create Deep Performance – calm, precise execution under pressure with pride and ownership.
● Grow leaders everywhere and build Fiercely Committed Teams that stay, care and outperform.
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“When I have heard her speak it has rocked me to the core. I love her approach to life and business and I love that she’s not afraid to stand up for what she believes in, fight the good fight and make some serious positive changes in this world.”
Lisa Messenger – Founder
The Collective Hub



