Don’t be afraid to disappoint.

It’s a simple concept really. Life is about the people you meet and what you create with them. Who you spend time with is who you become. Change your life by consciously choosing to surround yourself with people with higher standards and courageous dreams. Let the mediocre people fall by the wayside if mediocre is how you refuse to roll. You are rare. That’s why they are attracted to you. They are fascinated by your wiring. They have never met anyone like you. There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. But when they stop treating you as a rarity and take you for granted… When they try to mute you or tell you to ‘behave’, ‘be quiet’, ‘be fucking polite’… because it disturbs the false ‘happy clappy energy’ and disturbs the fucking peace. That is when they lose you. If you are your Authentic Self, truly truly Yourself, without the bullshit, without the fear, without the incongruence… if you taking a stand is you being yourself, then you will have no competition. Love may be unconditional… maybe. But relationships are not. Fill your space, time and energy with people who treat you well. This alone will give you less time for the others who don’t. The more you are motivated by love, growth and evolution, the more fearless and free your actions will be. Some people will only love you as long as you fit into their box. Don’t be afraid to disappoint. #BadassByDesign #thewayofthespiritualentrepreneur

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